Reasonable Sexpectations

2013 is our year, beautiful ladyfish!

2013 is going to be filled with extreme confidence that you and your spouse will achieve similar sexual expectations (sexpectations?). There is always HOPE that libido can be reclaimed.

I think we can be assertively confident because a strong marriage is God's will.

In this blog, hope is not defined as an over-inflated wish. Being filled with hope is setting a goal and knowing you will be active in attaining it. The Lord will endow you with wisdom and strength to know which steps to take toward re-animating your sexual desire.

"Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly than we ask or think, according to the power at work within us," Ephesians 3:20.

Self-Introspection
It says in Eph. 3:20, that the Lord is able to do far more abundantly than we even THINK. Pray to The Lord to reveal areas in your heart, body or mind that can be changed, molded, or strengthened to increase your desire for your husband.

Quantum Leap Towards Libido
If you wanted to change the color of your bathroom walls, you can't just say, " I wish my walls were blue," and expect them to paint themselves.
You have to first decide which shade of blue.
Then you have to consider your budget.
Then you have to get your painting supplies from where they are stored or buy new ones.
Then you have to prepare the walls and your working area.
....paint one coat, let dry
....paint second coat, let dry.
....return wall hangings and clean up.

Making an active change in your life, including increasing your sexual desire, requires meeting God half way with your actions. He will provide the avenues. You must drive them.

No, it's not easy for us low libido ladies. But, you will never regret improving this area of your life and marriage.