The focus of OysterBed7 is to encourage my low libido sisters. What makes a wife low-libido? There can be several reasons. But, I mainly focus upon:
1. She has low sexual desire due to physical problems.
2. She perceives she has low physical desire due to poor relational connection with her husband, poor body image, past sexual/physical/emotional abuse, exhaustion, life circumstances, poor spiritual life. Once these issues are understood (not necessarily healed) she may have a surge in her physical desire, again. Remember girls, perception is reality.
Basically, for gals who struggle with physical desire (due to reason #1 or #2), the whole of life greatly affects sexual intimacy with your husband.
Thaw in the title is not to poke fun. I melted from a lady with a very rigid mindset to one of more fluid and encompassing thoughts. It felt good to thaw and to relax.
I am not a counselor or a medical specialist. I am a Christian low-libido wife who likes to research and figure out how I can enhance physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy with my husband.
Here's our story: Miserable Marriage/Magical Marriage
The following posts are concepts that radically changed my thought process, behavior or altered preconceived notions. Concepts here were life changing to me. They may or may not speak to you as strongly.
Swimming in the Red Flag Zone
Walking on Eggshells or Sunshine?
Best Kept Secret to Lift Low Female Libido
Slow and Steady Still Wins the Race