It’s a divine paradox.
When he uttered them, I didn’t want to keep taking. I wanted to turn around and give him the world. It didn’t make me selfish for more. It made me want to overflow with generosity in return. It’s kind of a divine paradox. Generosity creates more generosity.
What does this have to do with low sexual interest?
This may not apply to your marriage, but take a moment to evaluate. When is the last time you completely and unselfishly laid aside your preferences to honor the preferences of your spouse? Helping the low drive wife feel honored and cherished goes a long way toward building trust and emotional intimacy between the two of you.
This doesn’t mean that you cater to her at all the time, because that is not life nor how to have a relationship. It means that occasionally you treat her like a queen.
I wonder how your sweetie will react if you utter these 5 words in all sincerity?