Is there a mismatch in sexual desire levels in your marriage? Would you like there to be less of a miss and more of a match? Then, you have come to the right place!
Author, Speaker, Coach
I’ve been researching and writing about healthy godly sexuality on my blog, OysterBed7, since 2012. I’ve been speaking about godly healthy sexuality on the podcast, Sex Chat for Christian Wives (over 1M downloads) since 2017. Most recently, I’ve earned credentials as a coach to help you move toward the full and rich sex life you desire.
“I once struggled with sexual intimacy, too. My strength lies in blending science and scripture. I draw from a deep well of personal experience and interaction with ladies just like you.”
Bonny Logsdon Burns
Books
Virgin Bride Guidebook
Unlock Your Libido
And the Latest…
Unlock Your Orgasm
Godly Healthy Sex Blog
Formerly OysterBed7.
Articles from personal experience and scientific research that all point to emotionally and spiritually mature sexual intimacy in marriage.
Podcast – Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Listen in as four sex and marriage writers discuss what God really wants for the sexual intimacy in your marriage. Lots of insight and practical tips.
Coaching with Bonny Logsdon Burns
As a coach, I can walk with you as a thinking partner to help unleash your inner wisdom and understanding about your sensual self and your marriage. I can brainstorm with you, taking into account your unique experiences and perspectives, ways to improve your sex drive, as well as, your emotional and spiritual intimacy with your husband.
I Can Help
Godly Healthy Sexuality Blog
My Husband’s Big Belly Turns Me Off. Am I Shallow?
I recently received this message. It's a good one to consider because obesity is a national problem and a problem that affects marriage in a real way. [info_box type="alert_box"]“Dear Bonny, I struggle with my desire for sex with my husband because he has gained a...
Do You Know What a Healthy Marriage and Sex Life Looks Like?
While my young adult kids were here over the Christmas holiday, they binge watched a BBC show called, The Great British Bake-Off. You’ve probably seen it. Having a sweet tooth the size of a baked Alaska, I nearly can’t be in the same room when it’s on. It...
Now is the Perfect Time to Unlock Your Libido!
Now is the perfect time to unlock your libido! It doesn't take a magic eight ball to predict you have heard A LOT about resolutions and goals in the past few days since New Year's was just a week ago. My expertise lies in helping ladies "of a certain resolution." ...
My Approach & Philosophy
I believe you are a capable woman, intelligent and motivated, or else you wouldn’t be here. Read through my articles on the blog. Check out the episodes in our podcast.
If you want more personalized help, together, we will build on your strengths, moving forward toward understanding your sexual self through a 1 to 1 coaching session.
My philosophy is to go beyond, “Do no harm,” to only, “Do good.” You know yourself and your circumstances far better than I. You will be the one gauging where you are at while engaging with me as your thinking partner.