A divorced man at church made this comment to us, “I want my next marriage to be just like y’all’s, best friends,”
I commenced to tell him how hard we worked at being ‘best friends.’ For a while, we weren’t friends at all. We nearly destroyed our marriage. We work hard because we never want to be in that place again.
Your husband may not be showing you love in a way that makes sense to you. He needs to work on understanding you. But, where you can help him is to start honoring his love in a way he identifies.
Also see, My Cowboy is Not My Best Friend.
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