Higher drive spouses end up visiting OysterBed7, even when the lower drive wife is really my intended audience. High drive spouses are desperate for insight and help in persuading their uninterested spouse to hop in the sack.
Desire discrepancy is what I believe to be the number one symptom of a hurting marriage. One wants sex a whole lot more than they’re getting.
Typically, the higher drive spouse is the husband. Although, for about 25% of marriages with desire discrepancy, it’s the wife with the higher drive.
Higher drive spouses are welcome to poke around and comment. See Comment Policy.
Here are some articles addressed specifically to higher drive husbands and wives.
Higher Drive Wives
Higher Drive Husbands
Budget Minded Gifts for Her (seriously, these are the gifts she wants)
How a Husband Can Help (from my Orgasm series)