If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.
(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)
Congratulations! We have completed the first quarter of 2013’s positive thoughts and scriptures. If you are here with me today, you have put your marriage as top priority. I am proud of you for that! More importantly, God is smiling down on you for your beautiful heart.
Sexual intimacy isn’t always easy for you. I understand. Believe me, I do.
We are all at different stages on libido scale. Some of us may be running on empty all the time and some of us have ebb and flow. There are different reasons for our lower drive;
exhaustion,
stress,
hormones,
lack of emotional connection with our spouse,
past issues that surface unexpectedly during intimacy,
teenagers running amock causing you grave concern,
trust issues,
poor health,
stress,
exhaustion,
add your own here__________________________________.
But, obviously there is a desire on your part to have greater frequency of lovemaking with your husbands, or you wouldn’t be reading.
My question to you is, can you pinpoint the area that most affects your libido level? Instinctively, you must have an inkling. My most influential areas are health/hormones and emotional connection.
Sometimes, we would just rather not think about it. I get that. But, denial isn’t going to help the situation. Knowledge is power. And if you can pinpoint the problem that is causing your libido to be drained, you can work on fixing it.
If it all seems a big mystery, PRAY. Have faith in Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Having trouble believing He can help you? Then, He says we can even ask Him to help our unbelief.
Key 14
“….But if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us.”“ ‘If you can?’” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.” Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe, help me overcome my unbelief,” Mark 9:23-25.
POSITIVE THOUGHT (action verb: feel)
I can feel my understanding about my libido increasing. I can feel that sexual intimacy with my husband is God ordained. I can feel that Jesus will help me increase my belief in the power of His healing. I can feel that I am a sexually positive being.
