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Virgin Bride Asks How to Avoid Pain
Do you have the same kind of questions as this bride? “I’m about to get married next month and I have no clue about sex. What do I do? What will it feel like? Even though I had the sex talk in school, it still all seems very mysterious to me. I’m a virgin. Plus,...
Supernatural Sex: Spiritual Dimension of Libido for Low-Drive Wives
The waning of my physical sex drive was one of the biggest blessings of my life. Maybe yours, too, if you’re a low libido wife. “WHAT??” I hear in unison. Being sexual with a throbbing physical yearning is easy. No offense to those ladies who still retain that (and...
Week 4: Give Yourself Permission
Welcome, Ladies!If you are just joining the 'challenge,' please see the Introduction here. Our 4th week Libido Key, Ezekiel 36:26, talks about having a stony heart. I DO NOT believe you have hearts of stone, ladies. Your hearts are full of the...
Week 3: Ask, Seek, Knock to Unlock Sex Drive
This is Week 3 of a 52-Week series. To see the introduction and complete series, see this link, Unlock Your Libido: 52-Week Sex Drive Transformation. (Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.) WEEK 3:...
Week 2: Sex Drive Transformation for the Low Libido Wife (Cling)
This is week 2 of Unlock Your Libido: 52-week Sex Drive Transformation. Read this introductory post to see what it's all about. If we, as wives with low sexual interest, continue to use our own judgment (based on our physical nature) for what makes a strong...
Introduction: 52-Week Sex Drive Transformation for the Low-Libido Wife
Our hearts play a huge role in our libido and our minds play a huge role. Put our hearts and minds together and you get an overall attitude. You also get the power to change. In 1985, Michael Scheier of Carnegie-Mellon University and Charles Carver, University of...
What My Husband’s Courage Looks Like and How It Helped My Sexual Interest
My husband, Dave (a.k.a. Mr. Muscle), is a guy’s guy. He loves to fish, hunt, and order alligator off the menu. He’s proficient at anything that involves projectiles traveling at enormous speeds, skeet shooting and Call of Duty respectively. He loves...