If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.
(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)
There’s a symphony playing through our veins. There’s a crescendo and diminuendo of hormones, enzymes, antibodies, platelets and a plethora of other beautiful biochemicals.
Occasionally, maybe even rarely, as our day is orchestrated, a bright verdant chord sings out. It’s the perfect combination to induce the glorious electric hum of physical desire. Desire to make love to our husbands!
For low libido ladies, this physical component of random desire is refreshing and sometimes frightening. What do we do with it? Do we act on it? It’s not the right time, we’re at work. Or, I’ve got too much to do right now.
Act on it if at all possible!
Strike while the iron is hot
Make hay while the sunshines
Johnny on the spot
Now is the time!
Urgent Attention Needed
Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today.
If it’s not possible to act upon your chord immediately, don’t lose that lovin’ feelin’. Easier said, than done, I know, to sustain the libido fermata. But, here are some suggestions.
Wear what makes you feel beautiful and alive. May it be a pair of silky undies, pearl earrings, fuschia lipstick, or a sensual fragrance. Light the candle in your bedroom. (See Smellin’ Sexy)
If you’re at work, start listening to your favorite ‘in the mood’ music and
keep the upcoming encounter in the ‘lead section’ of your mind. Let it build to fortissimo!
Let your husband in on the song that’s playing in your heart. Let him know he can anticipate strumming your harp in the near future. Then, follow through and bring the song to completion as soon as possible.
“Seek ye the Lord while He may be found,
call ye upon Him while He is near,” Isaiah 55:6.”
“The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing,
while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied,” Proverbs 13:4.
Positive Affirmation (carry)
I carry the knowledge that God ordains sexual intimacy. I acknowledge and carry my hum of sexual desire and enlarge it. I carrythe knowledge I am a sexually charged symphony.
(If you live in the Cape Fear Region of NC, you may substitute the word ‘tote’ for carry, a little southern lexicon.J)
PLEASE add any other thoughts in the comments of ideas to sustain the spark of libido until you and hubby are able to make love…..